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  • Thursday, November 30, 2006

    Amendment of My Teaching

    Until today after obsevrving 郁穎's teaching, I knew some aspects for me to improve.
    I need smiles.
    And kids need my smiles, too.
    I think that is what I admire my teacher for.
    She can send out relief for students by letting them talk what they want
    and get back to the book immediately.

    Put more smiles!
    I told myself.
    Not even get more improvement
    ,but also more interaction with lovely children.

    I suddenly felt so sorry for the students
    that I've been too strict and tense.
    They can't know the real me and they can't have a real class.

    Monday, November 27, 2006

    孩子真的太純真了

    上禮拜讓我難過的事件,在今天請教老師下
    終於得到些許舒緩
    班上孩子排擠別人與被別人排擠的事
    事實上在社會上也都會出現

    我因為看到孩子排擠不喜歡的人
    不想和他同一組別
    讓我覺得我看到了人性醜陋的一面
    卻疏乎了其實在大人的世界裡
    不也是這樣子
    我何嘗不也是依不同的標準與要求看待這些較特殊的兒童
    自己都難以公平對待了
    還要求學生要不計一切
    與做事不專心不負責的人一組呢?

    是我的話
    我也不想與他們一組
    但是差別只在於
    我是個社會歷鍊比他們深的老師
    我知道要怎麼表達才不會使場面和諧不尷尬
    道不同,不相為謀
    但也要讓彼此都有個台階下才是
    孩子們還在學習圓融的處事技巧
    所以遇到不喜歡的人、事、物
    總是直接地反彈
    故學著圓融待人與讓自己變得歡迎是孩子的本份
    而我呢
    身為老師
    就是教導孩子們處事的態度與技巧

    這讓我想起昨天與西蕾和順去看的
    「佐賀的超級阿嬤」
    裡邊的阿嬤這樣子跟昭廣說
    『使人不感到尷尬的體貼,是真正的體貼』
    在體貼別人,表現自己關心之餘
    也要注意不要讓別人感到難堪
    才真的是體貼

    我想我想替兩位受到班上排擠的同學找組別
    應該讓他們感受到關心之餘
    也夾雜著滿滿的難堪吧
    真的感到很抱歉
    我的學生們
    希望你們都能早日體會到與別人相處的模式
    讓彼此沒有傷害
    開開心心的

    Saturday, November 25, 2006

    抓不到

    感覺已經實習了好長一段的時間
    但是我還是抓不到我想要的感覺
    學生怎麼樣子才算乖
    怎麼樣子是不太乖
    我總是不知道

    學生怎麼樣子是可以接受的吵鬧?
    怎麼樣子是必須馬上制止的吵鬧?

    我不是很了

    怎麼辦
    我知道我是我自己標準的問題
    但是我似乎還抓不到自己的標準在哪

    有時候吵一點可以
    有時候我就會不想要有任何聲音
    我抓不到,相信學生也無所適從
    哈哈
    這件事情不止困擾我
    也讓我很生氣
    心情不是很好
    加上這禮拜代Sarah的課
    實在壓力很大

    可能
    在某些標準要求上
    我要讓自己清楚一點
    也好讓學生能夠有所遵從
    自己也能開心一點了

    今天到Wesley Church上Paul的課
    上完一半時間後
    到樓下參加教會辦的感恩節大餐

    大家一起分享、感恩
    感覺真的很好
    有能力幫助別人真的讓自己覺得幸福
    接受別人的祝福也真的很幸福
    還好我還有這一群都喜歡英語與分享的同學、朋友
    真的很開心

    Thursday, November 23, 2006

    damn quarrels

    I hate quarrels.
    Sometimes they occur unexpectfully.

    These days I suffered this sort of unhappiness with friends I live with.
    It was painful actually
    ,but I can see the significant facters separating our friendship
    are only misunderstanding and the lack of polite manners of communication.
    That's solvable.
    And I was taught a lesson, a big lesson.

    I hope each other can do their best to keep the friendship to go long
    if both think it as important treasure.
    I cherish friends and family.
    I always try my best to force myself to be nice to others as I do to myself.

    Through more incidents challenging friendship
    ,you will know more how precious good friends are.

    I don't know what will happen to us (XXX&Taiyen&I)after we split 6 months later.
    I do worry about it now.

    Sunday, November 19, 2006

    I Love You~Taiwan!!


    Nation : Taiwan, Republic of China
    Population : 23,036,087 (2006 estimate)
    Capital : Taipei City
    Language : Mandarin/Taiwanese/Hakka
    Establishment : Xinhai Revolution October 10, 1911
    Location:

    Photo From : Wikipedia Taiwan R.O.C.
    This is my country. I love you though there're still rooms to improve.

    Taiwan is a name that needs to be called as a country.
    The people and the food here are fantastic.
    Everyone here trys their best to be nice and helpful.
    The beauty of the nature is also surprising.
    Taiwan is an beautiful island surrounding with lots of precious natural resources
    , such as places to visit, special species for researching and resevation, etc.
    The living quality here is not too bad because Taiwanese work hard and live hard for their colorful life, which makes the environment better than many places on earth.

    to be continued...

    Saturday, November 18, 2006

    認真、專注 = 美

    這論調是從何而來?
    若是養了貓,就會知道。

    自從大一的暑假與姊姊從路邊撿了一隻貓
    我們家進入了另一個快樂的世界
    貓是一種很有趣的動物
    做什麼都很認真
    看到一樣物品
    就能把它當成假想敵
    認真地與它打一埸仗

    看了他們認真的動作與表情
    除了笑他們笨之外
    竟也慢慢被他們專注的眼神吸引
    愛上這種動物

    這讓我也開始改觀
    認真地做好每一件事
    會讓一個人變得美麗
    我開始尋找身邊的人
    是不是也有這種個性

    但我發現現在的社會,太過講求投資報酬率
    一件簡單但不甚重要的事
    會選擇不做
    而非認真做
    或是遇到一件事
    只求完成即可
    不要求中間過程的投入

    這專心的特質也許都是我們所缺少的
    當專注一件事情時
    不管它是什麼事
    都可以讓專注的元素
    佈滿全身
    散發非凡的魔力
    形成一股不可抗拒的吸引力
    這種吸引力是超乎外在形體的
    也難怪會有人說認真的女人最美麗
    男人其實也是如此吧
    我想

    Sunday, November 12, 2006

    Hanging Out with C-ray & 順

    It's been a long time since we met.
    Everyone seems great.

    順 is now teaching in Ren-Ai Elementary School(仁愛國小)
    as a student teacher.
    He's having a good time.
    His teacher offers him extreme freedom
    to do what he want.
    He is not planning to attend National Examination at present
    which is what the poor graduates from teacher's school usually do.
    He is also not planning to apply for graduate school.
    All he plans is do the best with things he's doing right now.

    C-ray is one of my friends who keeps touch with me abidingly.
    We have our habits in common.
    We both love movies and he has lots of movies to borrow.
    Ray is also not planning anything.
    What he's doing now is working in his family's beef theme restaurant.

    We had a good talk today.
    Especially, 順 has the same job as I,
    so we talked a lot about life as student teachers
    and some info of classmates in senior high.

    I love to be with friends.
    I can laugh and tell jokes as I please
    and they echoes me.

    Alick, long time no see...

    I went to meet Alick at about 11:20.
    We have not met each other for 1 year.
    But the last time I met him is in Shan-Hua Rail Station.
    He just came back from A-li Mountain
    and we said good-bye right after we greeted each other.
    So in fact, it's been 3 years.
    I went to his place in Taichung
    when he was a freshman in Tunghai University.

    Alick may be my most important friend in my life.
    I spent almost all my junior and senior high time with him.
    We were really good friends,
    but some trivial disputes somehow blocked the way
    of our fantasitic friendship in the 2nd year in senior high.
    I believe that some power and faith deep in our heart
    didn't want to give in to the ridiculous misunderstanding.
    That's why we became friends again.

    I can't tell the myth that links us.
    I know he really sees me as his best friend.
    And so do I.
    That's the reason I bought a gift to him when I went to USA
    though we had lost connection with each other
    when we were junior in college.

    After the 1-year-late gift I sent him today,
    I hope we can keep in touch.
    Get the good times back.

    Thursday, November 09, 2006

    The Kids are Disappointing!

    I don't know how this feeling gets started.
    The students in my 501 class are making me disappointed.
    In my view as I met them the first time,
    I thought they were kind of naughty and just need some disciplines.
    The fact arises after 2 months somehow from their poor behavior.
    I wonder why they are irresponsible and lazy that makes me furious.
    Their parents should take the most responsibilties.
    The kids should spend more time with their dads and moms than teachers,
    so children should be taught well at home.
    Sadly, they are not taught well at home and need teachers.
    When a teacher wants to help the child out of bad habits or behaviors,
    the parents stop the teacher and think the teacher minds too many business of their child.
    That's how Taiwan is going down.
    Do the parents really love their children and think what they do will be the worst discipline?
    Most of them don't know.
    I stand on the teacher's side.
    Teachers know what is the best discipline because they have so many experiences of seeing how a child be with their different way of teaching.
    Parents haven't yet see how their child be and they are still trying every way with using their best way the moment they regard as.
    Moreover, parents sometimes get confused to do the best decision as being child-loving parents.
    Who is going to be the victim?
    The child and Taiwan society.
    And we, the old people who will be relying on the children we grow.
    Please, for a better Taiwan, be more longsighted.

    Sunday, November 05, 2006

    Happy Birthday for Grandpa

    Family celebrated the birthday of Grandpa on the weekend.
    We went to Chigu(七股) to enjoy a table of delicacies and the wide view there.
    I was a little bit sad that not all of the family members came,
    but I still had a good time because the rest of us had a happy talk.
    After lunch in 溪南春, we headed for habitat of black-faced spoonbills.
    It was really fun to see the birds cleaning their feathers and prowling.

    Dear Grandpa,
    I really wish you have a good time whenever you are. I can't forget every word you said to me and every life experience you reminded me. I do miss the time when I lie on your legs watching T.V. with asking you thousands of questions. You always satisfies me. When I was naughty and made troubles, you didn't spare your stick. That's why I've grown up to be a man knowing rights and wrongs. I love you and hope you enjoy your life with us. Take care of yourself.
    Love Grandson,Lee